What makes a great sexual experience???

Author: taliaamour
November 3, 2017

What makes for a intimate and erotic great experience ??

We all go through different phases in our sexual journey. None are better or worse than the other just different.
when we are younger all we need is to be visually stimulated. our hormones take over from there: our bodies automatically respond with lust and anticipation with a glimpse or thought of a pretty girl. Not much conversation needs to be had when we were experiencing those feel-good chemicals flowing through our veins. 

Over time we get exposed to all different types of sexual stimulus between the Internet and our real life experiences, nothing is really left to the imagination. We start noticing that we’re no longer as aroused by visuals as we used to be. What we loved in the past does nothing for us now. Maybe your erection becomes weaker or short-lived. Our bodies naturally decrease the production of testosterone overtime. Our bodies, no longer responding like they used to, when we were in our late teens and early 20s. Our minds have been desensitized from indulging in porn. our bodies have been desensitized From vigorously masturbating and using certain toys to achieve orgasm. When we go to have an experience with a partner it’s just not the same as when we’re alone with our favorite porn star and lube. (There is nothing wrong with outright sexual stimulation as long as it doesn’t interfere with our real life experiences with a partner)

Many people, men in particular find it challenging to have conversations with women. they don’t know how to interact or what to do in a real life situation because they have been seeking their pleasure an orgasm alone. They are afraid in this politically correct world a simple conversation or casual touch will be taken as harassment. 

 Women feel less attractive and unwanted because their boyfriend or husband is no longer responding the way that he used to in the bedroom. They think men only want sex so the assume every touch and gesture is only to get them naked.

 Being objectified and held to the standard of the Internet and advertising creates challenges for men and women. Only seeing the highlights or the best bodies on the screen or in print warps our minds: we start Think that what we see is real life. When the fact of the matter is that those are paid, trained actors and models. you only see the highlights and the craziest most out rages things you could possibly imagine for our entertainment purposes. Pictures are photo shopped beyond recognition. When we overindulge we start to miss out on all of the things that get us to massive orgasmic peaks. When we were younger the arousal phase is so short we don’t even know what exactly are specifically it is that is turning us on, the hormones are so strong.

 as we get older we need to revisit the arousal phase in order to build up to the peak orgasmic experiences we so long to have. Keeping in mind that what we see on the screens is often not what happens in real life. We need to find out what turns us on in real life, without shame! 

everyone orgasms differently, especially women. it could be a quiet orgasm, a loud screaming orgasm, a giggle orgasm or even one that sheds tears. Understanding that orgasms come in all different ways is very important, just like we know that all people come in all shapes and sizes. Everyone has A preference and most people enjoy a sense of variety. Trust me, you are much more ‘normal’ (whatever that means lol) than you think- you are whole and complete just as you are! 

Once their bodies stop responding the way that they used to we tend to reach out grasping for anything to bring us back to what we were pills, creams, injections you name it….. Even seeking out younger partners thinking that they’re going to bring you back to that state when you were young too. Unfortunately some of those things may be able to put a Band-Aid on the problem for a short period of time. however it never solves or heals the underlying issue.dive deeper look within

 I believe that our body shift and change over time for a reason. once we are no longer in a procreative time of our life the hormones start to decrease. we actually need a conversation to start desire. we need interaction on a mind, body, emotional and spiritual level to achieve those intense orgasmic experiences. 

Unfortunately our culture and society does not teach us about all of these different phases of life and in accurate healthy way. there’s not many people you can really talk to about sexual challenges in situations. (That’s why I’m here!

Escort advice for Newbies

Author: taliaamour
October 3, 2017

Escort advice for newbies

By Talia Amour
I have been in the business for around 8years now. I have learned a few things, at least, since then about people. I consider it an honor and a pleasure to share the joy and fulfillment the companionship and entertainment has to offer. Human beings are sexual from conception until death. We can not de-sexualize people because of age sexual preference the color of their skin or even disabilities. After all babies will die if you don’t touch them what makes us think that as we get older we are any different?

Humans crave touch and connection. We need it to survive. Going through our life daily there are a few opportunities for us especially men to experience touch and connection beyond shaking hands or pat on the back. Much of our culture and society leaves the socialization connection touchy-feely aspects of life up to women intern they have removed man from those aspects and place them in work mode 24 seven. One of the only outlets men get for touch and connection is through sex. I believe that this is one of the problems with our modern day society. This is also one of the reasons why I feel so passionately about offering connection and touch through companionship and entertainment. Each person deserves to experience happiness joy love and fulfillment. 

In my business in order to offer these experiences A certain amount of safety and discretion needs to be assured. We call this process getting verified. Verification as a process that providers do to ensure our own safety as well as our guests safety. References from other providers are always the best form A verification however it’s understandable that you have to start somewhere. Many of us ask for very detailed personal information in order to confirm that you are who you say you are and confirm we will be a good fit to spend time together. Such as real name, phone numbers, drivers license, work website, business card. Using only Linked in and Facebook or Twitter is not an acceptable for verification. 

It’s understandable that someone who is new may feel apprehensive about sharing personal information with someone that they don’t know. this is why you have many options and resources to confirm that we are authentic in our presentation. There are numerous review websites (whom many are not very provider friendly, however they do serve a purpose for the our guest). Many providers/companions have social media account, blogs, websites and numerous ads on reputable websites. It is your job to do research on who you want to see! You can do more research on us before contacting us than we can on you. It is important to make sure that you’re going to have a safe and enjoyable experience. Your time (as well as ours) is very precious and valuable, we feel honored that you were choosing us to spend that precious time with. we want you to be happy as much as you want to be happy. often times, I have found, that you want us to be happy too. Many men feel Joy and pleasure from seeing the person that there with, experience joy and pleasure…so many times this is a mutually enjoyable experience (which is a blessing). We will always keep your information confidential and many (I do) destroy it after we meet when it is no longer needed. 

When choosing a companion to spend time with: check that they are on multiple reputable websites and that all of the information is consistent. Check reviews for consistency: is she on time? Look like the pictures? Age range accurate and consistent with other adds ? Other people have met her and she is a real person, Stuff like that. Keep in mind that reviews are written by other people and everyone is going to have a different experience and opinion of that person as you know opinions are like assholes we all have them, take them with a grain of salt. Many times people write reviews to make themselves look better or to make them feel like ‘more of a man’. Unfortunately there is a downside to the reviews: I get multiple emails a month asking me to pay for ‘good’ reviews (I never personally have done this but I do know of people who have an order to boost their reputation). I have also heard of some men using reviews against companions threatening to give them bad reviews if they don’t do something or men write that the companion does something,they don’t do, in order to pressure her into doing what they want. A few bad apples can spoil the bunch. 80 to 90% of you guys out there are genuinely great and nice people unfortunately there’s a smaller person who can cause a lot of problems and harm. So remember you are new, you don’t know this game yet. only leave reviews if the provider request! ask the provider how they feel about reviews before spilling the beans to the world about the salacious details of your experience. What you think is going to help someone may hurt them or make them uncomfortable. 

To make a good decision you will need to READ the providers website. Not just look at pictures! We spend a great amount of time and money on our websites. The website will tell you details about the her, the best way to contact her, what to expect during your date, dos and don’ts, q&a, donations/rates, locations, travel, and of course her personal verification process. Make sure to send all of the information requested in the very first email, along with an introduction. Say a little about yourself, why you decided to reach out, what attracted you to her specifically. Include all verification information in that first email. If it has been 3emails back and forth and you still haven’t sent it I will stop responding, and so will many others- don’t waste your time and our sending one liners back and forth. Send one complete email with Introduction and verification. Many companions will simply delete emails that are disrespectful one liners such as: are you available? Or hey what’s up? Or how much? Don’t be that guy!!! 

Be sure to give advance notice, like 48hrs notice at least! It is very challenging to complete verification the same day. We also have other things going on in our life like other jobs, children or parents to care for, dentist/Doctor/hair/nail appointments and dates with people who planned well in advance. Most of the time after you get to know a lady they are willing to take shorter notice but it is not always possible. Consider if you are asking her to drive to you- a simple 2hour date can take over 4 hours of her day: between getting ready to see you (at least 1hr) the date itself and driving there and back. We need time to plan our lives around the date. When driving long distances many companions ask for additional travel fees.

Newbies often lament: I am so important I can’t give out my personal info, if I get caught, I have so much to lose! NEWS FLASH: we are real people too! Some have other Careers, we have family and other obligations in our life too. Why play the ‘I’m more important than you’ card??? Studies have shown that predators and criminals don’t see their victims as people. So if you don’t see us as a real people, who’s life has value, just like yours, it’s a huge red flag! Also if you are so scared about spending time with a companion then you should take a look at why you are reaching out in the first place. We don’t want to cause harm to anyone. We don’t want to induce guilt or shame- if you have these feelings it’s best to address them with a professional before projecting them on us. We are here to share our passion, love, joy, pleasure and happiness. 

Privacy, safety and discretion is our number one priority. After verification is completed we can move on the fun part! Planning our time together. It is best not to write or speak explicitly. It is an red flag. Some website offer check lists of experiences providers will offer. Use those to get more information. When you are on the date you can talk about specifics of how you want to spend your time. Remember: never talk/write about specific acts and money in the same conversation!!! You are making a donation for the time you are spending with the companion! What you choose to do with your time is between you and her. When you walk in to see her, first thing you do is put down your donation!! In plain site (or where she said to usually mentioned in website). Business first then pleasure! Once that is out of the way you can both relax and enjoy your special time together. 

Once you have seen a reputable companion we are happy to be a reference for you moving forward. Just ask us. I personally do all references via email, no the phone, so ask how she prefers to be contacted. If it have been over 9month to a year and you have not seen another provider since, send an email asking if they will still reference you. Many providers will not accept references over 1yr old, you may have to complete the verification process again if you wait that long in between dates. Consider joining a reputable website like preferred 411. We are happy to send you an ‘okay’ after a successful date.

I hope this has been helpful to new clients/friends. If you are new we understand you have to start somewhere. Enjoy your adventure safely and passionately! 

It’s Talia time! 

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Hurricane Irma update 

Author: taliaamour
September 13, 2017

I am feeling overwhelmed with gratitude the past few days. Preparing for a hurricane cat 3or 4, I packed up my home and in call before the storm in fear of Windows breaking. The apartment is right on the water so I had some concerns of flooding too. We were given a gift from above, that the storm that by the time the storm got to us in Tampa it was only a cat 1/2. We were spared wind damage and flooding that a stronger storm would have delivered. 

The incall did NOT flood, we HAVE power and same for my home! I’m so grateful! It could have been so much worse! I am definitely going to invest in storm shutter for my home for the future. I never want to go through this packing up again! 

I know some had flights canceled and are concerned about hotels having power…Tampa has power in many areas!! I’m sure you will be just fine! If not you can stay at my place

Summer fun 2017 

Author: taliaamour
August 28, 2017

It’s been a hot summer here in Florida! 

I have the opportunity to visit Pittsburgh for the first time in July I had a great visit and met some amazing new friends

I absolutely plan on going back again next year! 

I had a great competition season I got to participate and my first national show. Bikini is a tough division and very subjective I was so proud and honored that I qualify to participate at the national level. I’ve given my body a break the past few months and I am enjoying eating a little bit more and doing less cardio. I have gotten to bake some cookies enjoy my pancakes and show off my curves! I actually enjoy having a couple of percent body fat more it really smooth everything out I’ve been getting lots of compliments lately. If you enjoy my softer side definitely send me an email and let’s plan a date

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I got to visit fetish con and had a great time at the event and one of the after parties I love getting to dress up! The following weekend I went to Caliente, the clothing optional resort in north Tampa/lutz.  they were having a back-to-school themed swingers party and I had a blast putting on some school girl clothes with an edge Tallia time twist! I’m very comfortable being naked and I love going to clothing optional resort it’s such a liberating experience I love seeing people of all shapes sizes and ages enjoying themselves and expressing their sensuality freely! It was hysterical I actually had to stop for gas on the way there and I thought to myself how my supposed to go into the store like this I had to wrap us the wrong around me and going to the store to pay for the gas and of course you know I ran into someone that I knew from the gym!! So I guess the cats out of the bag- I was honest I was going to a party at Caliente! It’s amazing how in real life people put up this front that they’re so conservative but the reality is that they are a lot more open-minded and free-spirited then they present themselves to be. I have found the more conservative and “normal” someone appears the wilder that they are! 

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Headed to Caliente


I am at the eight year mark for being in the business originally I came into this through town trust sacred sexuality doing a lot of full body sensual massage. So I decided to offer a one-way touch only full body sensual massage experience. Check out my website for details Website link or send me an email whereistaliaamour@gmail.com. I love to share my passion and gifts of healing touch with those who truly appreciate it. If you’re craving a traditional it’s Tallia time experience now is the time to act. For the first time ever I have done a small discount on incall companionship experiences. 

Come enjoy my softer side and celebrate my off season with me! 

I still hit the gym and eat my meal plan but I do less cardio and get to enjoy desert now and then! 

I’m Excited to connect with you and share my passion for sensual energy expression 

It’s Talia time!!!

May 2017 pictures 

Author: taliaamour
May 17, 2017

May 2017 pictures! 

I had the pleasure of shooting with a local photographer (send me an email and I’m happy to pass on his information if you’d like to shoot with him!)

I was very excited to get some professional shots to show off all of my hard work and the gym! Here are a few to tempt you a bit! I will be posting the gallery in the next week a few pictures at a time!

Check out my Twitter @talia_amour (I all ready started leaking them there! )

I love being your companion and/or coach! As you know, I am always looking for ways I can turn it up a knotch and take our experience to the next level. I have an idea I will be expanding on this year. As you know I will be completeing my sex coaching certification (I all ready have a business and life coaching one, along with countless sexuality and spirituality trainings and workshops I have completed) by the end of the year. In addition to that I am planning on getting a personal training certification.  Fitness has always been a big part of my life and it has taken on a larger role in the past few years (as you can see!) I am happy to share with you the knowledge I have and will gain from this course….you know I will have a ‘Talia time’ spin on it tho…..I am thinking

Sexersize?! Would you be interested in learning exercises that could help increase your thrusting capacity??? How about little lifestyle tricks to having a more fulfilling sex life? How about aphrodisiac foods??? I will bring to you Ideas to make your lifestyle more sexy through exercise and diet! it will be a great addition to my sex coaching! I’ve got you mind body and spirit! Just need so time to chill and be appreciated just for being you? I am you undercover lover, girlfriend with no strings attached! Want to have a more fulfilling life? I am your coach want to know or shift something in you intimate and erotic life? I’m you sex coach! Trying to reconcile spirituality and sexuality? I am your tantric Godess and coach…..I am blessed to be able to serve you with enthusiasm, universal love and peace.

 It is my pleasure and honor to be part of your extreme self care regiment! Taking time to get away from the grind of day to day life is just as important as physical fitness and spiritual fitness for that matter….you need each piece of the puzzle to make it whole and complete. Allow me to escort you! 

I’m looking forward to expanding my experiences with you….the journey continues and it should be fun, sexy and fulfilling! It’s talia time!!  

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Have you seen my latest fitness success ?!

Author: taliaamour
April 23, 2017

Have you seen my latest fitness success?!

Many of you have known me along the way and have seen my transformation 

For those who have not visit my page Fitness transformation update 2017 here on my blog!

I have been working hard on myself and you are welcome to join me in enjoying the results!

It’s talia time!!!!

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April 2017 winning !!!

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April 2017 winner!!

Women’s sexuality crash course part one

Author: taliaamour
April 3, 2017

here is the post you all have been waiting for!a crash course in women’s sexual challenges! I have divided it into two posts her is the first part

men and women have Many overlapping sexual concerns with low or no desire being the number one reported issue. In general you often find more information about women’s sexual challenges written about than men, usually because women are more likely to report sexual challenges to doctors and therapist. for women, inability to reach orgasm at all or with a partner sex is a close second challenge.

there is an interest in the pharmaceutical industry to try to find the new female Viagra- but there are really not as many options for women as there for men. women’s sexuality is very complex and often stems from memory and emotions…things that can not be addressed or measured with a pill. most of the time the messages our culture and society send women deeply affect their sexuality. they are never really given permission to enjoy and experience their sexual selves.

when you start to understand the cycle of energy involved in our sexual experience it all starts to make sense! one of the best analogies I’ve heard is from the book the multi orgasmic man- women’s sexuality is like boiling water: it take a little time to heat up and start to boil but once it does it takes a while to cool off! this means guys start slow! start soft! watch for her body’s response! ask what feels good! as a woman I’ve noticed what worked yesterday may not be the same today! l I think it has to do with hormones ) I tend to like different things at different times variety is key. what stays the same is the cycle. take time to build desire create the sexual tension. let her warm up before you dive in so to speak. women are stimulated verbally tell us what you think is sexy about us, tell us what turns you on, ask us what turns on! the imagination is the most powerful tool for arousal and the skin is the largest organ in the body. learn different types of touch, learn to feel our skin not just grab and jab us.

low or no desire: number one concern among women today.

-social conditioning is a major issue- messages include but not limited to: good girls don’t like sex, stay a virgin until marriage, sex is shameful and bad…the mother or whore message: that you can’t be both; men want a virginal wife but are obsessed with sex so sometimes men have issues experiencing their most erotic fantasies with their partner. these mixed messages can lead to shutting down of a womans sexual desire, not exploring their sexual desire at all, feeling shame and guilt for even acknowledging it.

other causes can be

-aging: perimenopause (the period before menopause one year or years before the last menstrual period) can greatly affect a woman’s sex drive. decline in estrogen can create hot flashes, mood swings, night sweats,weight gain,bloating, painful sex and being ignored by men make them feel less desirable. hormone replacement therapy may be an option to help alleviate symptoms. anti-depressants and other medications may add to challenges in addition to hysterectomy and other medical issues. always check out medications and hormones when addressing low sex drive they are often the culprit!

-relationship conflicts and power struggle issues: unresolved issues/long term unresolved conflicts in the relationship, some that may have nothing to do with sex even, may be affecting the libido as well. moving past an affair can also be an unresolved emotional issue.

women’s sexual desire is linked to the emotional and verbal part of the brain so make sure to resolve whatever issues and challenges you can by new learning communication skills. go The a councillor or therapist if you can’t seem to move beyond a past issue. you may also want to agree to set the issues aside and just connect with each other in a sacred space or by pure erotic desire. this takes communication and a conscious effort from both people. some issue take time and there is no reason you can’t come together intimately in the between time- as long as you’re both committed to resolving the issue.

women may also use sex as a way of gaining power or control in a situation they feel powerless in. they may be denying themselves pleasure and/or their partner pleasure because they feel powerless in another aspect of the relationship. again communication skills!! learn to authentically listen to each other.

-body image issues: feeling ashamed of their body or part of body, they may no longer feel sexy and shut down their sexual and or social self. they feel no self pleasure. encourage autonomy- the two of you separately were attracted to each other to come together as one- you both need time to cultivate a sense of self so you can again come together- maintaining a sense of self separate from your partner or child creates eroticism! don’t just become so and so’s husband/wife/mother/father- you are still a person apart from these roles we play.

masturbation is a great way to start to ‘prime the pump’- women may need permission to experience their sexual self. it’s important for her to acknowledge what is great and sexy about herself, give her permission to awaken her capacity to experience orgasmic energy again. tell her she is sexy! tell her what you love about her- not just physical attributes too. tell her and show her every day.

encourage self pleasure- it is a great way to start feeling orgasmic- masturbation is the foundation for partner sex!

-fatigue,low energy: is often an a major issue that affects sex drive! working mothers, high achievers,type a personality and even codependency can drain energy. when women are so busy caring for others, they Often have little time to care for themselves.

taking the time to relax in a way they define is important…you must serve from your saucer not your cup!

finding a ritual or routine to decompress like dance, exercise, take a bath, light candles, is a essential oils, massage are helpful in creating a transition from stress to sex! focus on building self esteem and self worth: you are responsible for your own orgasm, and so is she responsible for hers…she has to find what works for her. give her time to herself if needed, send her to the spa or out with her girlfriends to have some time away from household responsibility.

she needs time and space to be autonomous just like you.

-trauma,abuse , coercive relationship: before a woman can give herself permission to enjoy sex she must first heal old wounds. often times a therapist is best for working through past trauma and abuse. focus on surviving and thriving. women often shut down as a result of a bad experience. healing bodywork is a special modality that can be helpful. you may need to have sex in a certain way she is comfortable with touch her the way she wants to be touched.

This is a lot to take in! Stay connected for part two it’s a big one! Guys get ready for some more solid advice! 

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Crash course in men sexual functions: your top concerns addressed

By talia amour
I’ve been told 80% of solving the challenge is creating awareness around it. what you see, you can influence or control. What you don’t see or understand has the ability to influence and control you.

It’s important to note that when referring to sexual peak we are referring to the peak of biological function, not your capacity for experiencing satisfaction or pleasure.

Men have their sexual peak in the later teens: referring to the peak time of the flow of hormones. (For women the peak reproductive time is in their thirties) 

In 1999 jama released a study on sexual dysfunction it change the way that we speak openly about sexual functioning it was the birthing of Viagra and then came Cialis and Levitra used for maintaining an erection for men. This was all well and good for maintaining an erection but it did not take into consideration the other aspects of male sexual functioning. Sexuality and sexual function includes 

Mind

Body 

Emotions

Spirit

Energy

In coaching we prefer to use the terminology breakdown or concern vs. Dysfunction. I always recommend getting your annual check up and blood work done to rule out any biological factors that may contribute to your sexual concerns.

Here are the top sexual concerns of men:

Low desire: oftentimes low desire has to do with not having enough energy/being exhausted; low testosterone; side effects from certain medications. It’s best to eliminate physical possibilities first; see a doctor to rule out low T and other biological issues. 

Hot tips: reframe self-talk, work on increasing self-esteem, get additional education, get enough rest at night or take a nap if possible. Monitor intake of caffeine, sugar and other stimulants that could lead you to ‘ crash’ hours later
Early ejaculation: Sometimes men become aroused very quickly. They are unaware of each phase therefor lack the ability to control it. Often times you need to learn to tolerate pleasure. most of the time these men hurry in all aspects of their life. they often tend to be very type-a personalities. . 

Understand that orgasm starts before the ejaculation. The ejaculation is a physical response to the orgasm or orgasmic energy flowing through the body.

Another culprit could be sexual patterning: such as trying to ejaculate quickly in order to ‘not get caught’ (think masturbation) or trying to ‘hurry up and finish’ in fear that the partner is not truly enjoying the experience.

Hot tips: Learn to slow down and experience the pleasure of the moment. 

It’s important to take the judgment out of the challenge: reframe ‘early’ with ‘trying to control the release’ of ejaculation. 

Try to focus on pleasurable Sensations through out your body not only in the genital region, ride the waves of pleasure or in other words ‘tolerate’ pleasure.

Get to know the “sexual respond cycle”and the signs of each phase. (These were originally defined by masters and johnson in the 50′s: excitement, plateau,orgasm, resolution )

Find your ‘tipping point’ or ‘point of no return’ recognize when the inevitable moment of ejaculation occurs in order to control the release. 

There are many tantra techniques dedicated to this specifically,(ask me for more details it’s my speciality!) like the breathing squeeze, pressing at the base of the cock or at the frenulum. there are also certain devices like cock rings that could be useful, (I’ve even heard of extreme cases where antidepressants prescribed by a doctor).  

 A great resource is the book multi orgasmic man by Mantik chia.

If the spiritual aspect is too far out I suggest checking out the video, the maxwell multiple climax. The techniques are explained by a man, in a man words and in non-spiritual terms. The video as entertaining as well as educational.
Delayed ejaculation: often times they’re experiencing energetic orgasm/pleasure without releasing the ejaculation or ejaculating after they’re experiencing the energetic orgasm. There can be a few biological reasons this could happen: if you have had prostate surgery it’s possible that they may not have much ejaculate fluid to be released, there is also such a thing as reverse ejaculation ( where the fluid goes into the bladder instead of coming out of the penis) It’s important to rule out biological issues first! (Rare concern, I have seen twice so far, if you feel like you’re about to ejaculate and urine comes out instead: seek medical professionals help sooner than later. this could be an issue with the prostate. biologically speaking you are not supposed to be able to urinate while the penis is erect there is a valve in there that prevents this from happening in normal function) 

* Men who only have this challenge with a partner need to address trust issues and relationship dynamics that are affecting their sexuality. (Sometimes therapy is necessary for people to work through their trust issues before they can appropriately address their sexual concerns.)

People experiencing delayed ejaculation often are having issues with controlling their ejaculation it often can have to do with a fear of letting go….again trust issues.

they may believe they are losing some sense of self or sense of control. They may not feel safe enough or trust their partner enough to let go and experience pleasure.  

Hot tips: It is important to cultivate a feeling of safety and Trust so you can merge with your partner and experience orgasm. Explore concepts of intimacy and values.

Seek therapy if there have been traumatic experiences that are affecting your sexuality at present. Remember coaching is about being present and moving forward; therapy addresses the past in order to become present. Reaching out for help as a sign of strength. 

Sexual inhibitions and social/dating skills deficit: being ‘shy’ or scared to try something new; lack of experience or if you have had a disruption in your sexual development that has inhibited you from experiencing sexual pleasure or developing a sense of own sexual self. You need to understand the unconscious messages you are telling yourself and that the outside world has told you. Often misconceptions or misunderstanding that you have come to believe are ‘true’ may not be the ‘truth’.

Hot tips: consider an idea that you think is the ‘truth’ is not….such as the common misconception ‘women don’t enjoy sex’ the truth is that women do enjoy sex….another one may be that you think you are not a good enough lover, the truth is that you are good enough but maybe you have some techniques to learn or growing to do to reach your potential or ideal self.

reframing critical self-talk an continue learning and exploring your sexual self. 

We often ‘idealization’ or ‘objectify’ and need to ‘normalize’ and see people as people.  

Reduce the amount of time watching porn and get experience in the real world. Learn new communication skills. Know that porn can be a great addition to healthy sexual experience. But porn only captures the highlights and extremes, they are actors performing for your pleasure and enjoyment. In real life your sexual experience is not a performance and you will have to participate in all of the scenes before,in between and after, that are not shown on your favorite video.
Body image issues:Men often have body image issues just like women do: too fat, too thin, loosing your hair, aging…..one of the number one concerns is penis size! (the average penis is 5 and a half to 6 inches in length and usually around 4 inches in diameter. the majority of women will tell you that the girth is more important than the length. the flaccid penis is usually much smaller than a fully aroused and erect one)

Hot tips: focus on being healthy! Cut out sodas and fast food. Get at least 20to 30 minutes of exercise 5-6 days a week.

Find additional ways experience pleasure beyond penetrative sex, such as using your hands, mouths, toys or your mind by fantasizing. 

Penis enhancers are available. there are toys, herbal supplements (and in extreme cases surgery and implants). there could also be the elements of just accepting your body and loving it yourself as you are. 

Happy holiday season 2016

Author: taliaamour
November 28, 2016

Happy holiday season 2016

It’s great to be back in Florida the weather is beautiful and we are enjoying the upgrades at my in call!

img 4597 2 Happy holiday season 2016
I’ve had a great time celebrating my success with new friends and a few that I’ve been so excited to reconnect with.

I even got to wear some of the beautiful gifts that I’ve been giving I am so grateful thank you so much you guys know who you areimg 4613 Happy holiday season 2016

I’m still hitting the gym and eating my plan but I’m definitely getting to enjoy the goodies I’ve been baking…

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You know I’m going to eat at some point, and I will most likely fees you too especially if you’re at my place lol

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I plan on spending much of the holiday season and the Tampa Bay area if you’re visiting Orlando or Sarasota or even Naples shoot me an email it’s close enough to where I can definitely plan a visit if you are unable to visit me in Tampa.

My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with sensual domination we have lots of fun things to share with you

I also I’m getting a renewed interest in sex coaching lots of people asking about early ejaculation to challenges having an orgasm. I will do a separate blog post on each of the topics so stay tuned. I also offer coaching sessions over the phone or via Skype if you have some questions or areas of interest you would like more information on. 

I’m excited to connect with you and celebrate the season don’t forget to keep an eye on my summer selfie gallery I’ve been adding pictures for your enjoyment

Is talia time! 

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On a more personal note, feeling grateful 

Author: taliaamour
November 22, 2016

On a more personal note….2016 has been an interesting year…I have gone back and forth about writing this post but I am at a point where I am ready to share the years recap up to now. 
My mother passed away unexpectedly in March of this year. It seemed like the year was in full swing. I was planning trips and planning shows…but right in that moment everything was different. 
I have taken the last 7/8 months and really evaluated my life. There have been ups and downs in the grieving process. I did not see as many clients/friends/work as much. I have really gotten to spend time with myself and my family. I wanted to take a moment to thank you personally: my friends I met this year and my long time friends. You have been patient with me, shown compassion. Your kindness has not gone unnoticed. 
I have had more good times lately, than sad. I have gotten to experience some closure around my mothers passing. I’ve been working out, posting more seeing more of you! I even competed in a competition this month and won! 
Life has an interesting way of reminding us that we are not always in charge of what happens but we can determine how we are going to move forward. Sometimes it’s important to take some time for selves to re-center and rejuvenate I’m happy to share with you that I got to take that time and I am absolutely feeling re-centered and rejuvenated!
I have some pictures to share with you and a few travel dates before the year’s end.
I am looking forward to celebrating the holiday season with you and bring in a new journey in 2017!
Remember to tell the people that you love that you love them and also remember to love yourself first and take that time so you can truly enjoy the time that you have with others all we have is this moment
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Ps I love my flowers!