Update letter, travel dates 2018 

Author: taliaamour
April 18, 2018

I recently sent this letter out to some contacts

If you are a current friend and we have met make sure to send me a email to my new proton mail with your previous email and name so I can add you to my contacts in my new email account 

Dear friends 

I want to personally take the time to thank you for being a part of my journey and allowing me to be part of yours. If you are receiving this we have connected within the last few years. I value the time and energy that we shared together.

As you know there is much turmoil and confusion around some of the laws that have been working their way through our government

FOSTA and SESTA. I encourage you to Google these bills call your congressman as well as sign petitions to try to stop this legislation from going into effect in January. The languaging of these bills does not discern between consensual sex work and traffic victims: it sees all sex workers as being trafficked. These bills are an attack on our free speech, agencies over our own bodies and personal lives. I believe that this is part of the government trying to take away our personal freedoms and human rights. Our community is an easy target to get people to rally against. Most people supporting these bills have no education or information on the subject at hand.

It’s my personal opinion that decriminalization is the best way to combat trafficking and create safety.

Many websites and verification services have begun to shutdown. We all must be conscious and aware of our responsibilities to take care of ourselves and each other. Some sites are accessible through a VPN or virtual private Network. I recommend you installing a VPN on all of your mobile devices, computers and tablets. There are free services but I recommend using one that cost a nominal fee per year as they are more likely to respect your privacy and not store data. It’s also time to start using encryption email services such as protonmail.

Some social media sites and websites may begin shutting accounts down. I have decided to change some of the words on my social media and website. I usually use words to describe myself and what I do in relation to coaching, education, writing and now personality and modeling.

The verbiage has changed but I remain the same. 

Another alternative has popped up in lieu of the new laws going into effect in January. I have joined http://switter.at please follow me on this new platform.

There are also concerns about domain names being targeted and shutdown. Any changes that I will be making I will be posting to my switter feed.

I’m in the process of changing my email to

taliaamour@protonmail.com 

It is fully encrypted. I recommend that you also get a protonmail account for your privacy and safety moving forward. Simply send me an email with your former email address and name so I may save you in my contacts. 

I have travel plans posted for this year

Atlanta may 30- June 3 

New Jersey June 26- 30

NYC June 30 -july 5

Pittsburgh july 18-24

I am still based in tampa at my private location when not traveling.

I am available to travel to you for exclusive engagements

We all must stick together have faith that things will work out for the greater good of all parties involved. 

I think you again for your support and positive energy. I look forward to connecting with you again hopefully sooner than later.

 it’s a great day

talia 

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Women’s sexuality crash course part one

Author: taliaamour
April 3, 2017

here is the post you all have been waiting for!a crash course in women’s sexual challenges! I have divided it into two posts her is the first part

men and women have Many overlapping sexual concerns with low or no desire being the number one reported issue. In general you often find more information about women’s sexual challenges written about than men, usually because women are more likely to report sexual challenges to doctors and therapist. for women, inability to reach orgasm at all or with a partner sex is a close second challenge.

there is an interest in the pharmaceutical industry to try to find the new female Viagra- but there are really not as many options for women as there for men. women’s sexuality is very complex and often stems from memory and emotions…things that can not be addressed or measured with a pill. most of the time the messages our culture and society send women deeply affect their sexuality. they are never really given permission to enjoy and experience their sexual selves.

when you start to understand the cycle of energy involved in our sexual experience it all starts to make sense! one of the best analogies I’ve heard is from the book the multi orgasmic man- women’s sexuality is like boiling water: it take a little time to heat up and start to boil but once it does it takes a while to cool off! this means guys start slow! start soft! watch for her body’s response! ask what feels good! as a woman I’ve noticed what worked yesterday may not be the same today! l I think it has to do with hormones ) I tend to like different things at different times variety is key. what stays the same is the cycle. take time to build desire create the sexual tension. let her warm up before you dive in so to speak. women are stimulated verbally tell us what you think is sexy about us, tell us what turns you on, ask us what turns on! the imagination is the most powerful tool for arousal and the skin is the largest organ in the body. learn different types of touch, learn to feel our skin not just grab and jab us.

low or no desire: number one concern among women today.

-social conditioning is a major issue- messages include but not limited to: good girls don’t like sex, stay a virgin until marriage, sex is shameful and bad…the mother or whore message: that you can’t be both; men want a virginal wife but are obsessed with sex so sometimes men have issues experiencing their most erotic fantasies with their partner. these mixed messages can lead to shutting down of a womans sexual desire, not exploring their sexual desire at all, feeling shame and guilt for even acknowledging it.

other causes can be

-aging: perimenopause (the period before menopause one year or years before the last menstrual period) can greatly affect a woman’s sex drive. decline in estrogen can create hot flashes, mood swings, night sweats,weight gain,bloating, painful sex and being ignored by men make them feel less desirable. hormone replacement therapy may be an option to help alleviate symptoms. anti-depressants and other medications may add to challenges in addition to hysterectomy and other medical issues. always check out medications and hormones when addressing low sex drive they are often the culprit!

-relationship conflicts and power struggle issues: unresolved issues/long term unresolved conflicts in the relationship, some that may have nothing to do with sex even, may be affecting the libido as well. moving past an affair can also be an unresolved emotional issue.

women’s sexual desire is linked to the emotional and verbal part of the brain so make sure to resolve whatever issues and challenges you can by new learning communication skills. go The a councillor or therapist if you can’t seem to move beyond a past issue. you may also want to agree to set the issues aside and just connect with each other in a sacred space or by pure erotic desire. this takes communication and a conscious effort from both people. some issue take time and there is no reason you can’t come together intimately in the between time- as long as you’re both committed to resolving the issue.

women may also use sex as a way of gaining power or control in a situation they feel powerless in. they may be denying themselves pleasure and/or their partner pleasure because they feel powerless in another aspect of the relationship. again communication skills!! learn to authentically listen to each other.

-body image issues: feeling ashamed of their body or part of body, they may no longer feel sexy and shut down their sexual and or social self. they feel no self pleasure. encourage autonomy- the two of you separately were attracted to each other to come together as one- you both need time to cultivate a sense of self so you can again come together- maintaining a sense of self separate from your partner or child creates eroticism! don’t just become so and so’s husband/wife/mother/father- you are still a person apart from these roles we play.

masturbation is a great way to start to ‘prime the pump’- women may need permission to experience their sexual self. it’s important for her to acknowledge what is great and sexy about herself, give her permission to awaken her capacity to experience orgasmic energy again. tell her she is sexy! tell her what you love about her- not just physical attributes too. tell her and show her every day.

encourage self pleasure- it is a great way to start feeling orgasmic- masturbation is the foundation for partner sex!

-fatigue,low energy: is often an a major issue that affects sex drive! working mothers, high achievers,type a personality and even codependency can drain energy. when women are so busy caring for others, they Often have little time to care for themselves.

taking the time to relax in a way they define is important…you must serve from your saucer not your cup!

finding a ritual or routine to decompress like dance, exercise, take a bath, light candles, is a essential oils, massage are helpful in creating a transition from stress to sex! focus on building self esteem and self worth: you are responsible for your own orgasm, and so is she responsible for hers…she has to find what works for her. give her time to herself if needed, send her to the spa or out with her girlfriends to have some time away from household responsibility.

she needs time and space to be autonomous just like you.

-trauma,abuse , coercive relationship: before a woman can give herself permission to enjoy sex she must first heal old wounds. often times a therapist is best for working through past trauma and abuse. focus on surviving and thriving. women often shut down as a result of a bad experience. healing bodywork is a special modality that can be helpful. you may need to have sex in a certain way she is comfortable with touch her the way she wants to be touched.

This is a lot to take in! Stay connected for part two it’s a big one! Guys get ready for some more solid advice! 

#itstaliatime #escort advice


Happy holiday season 2016

Author: taliaamour
November 28, 2016

Happy holiday season 2016

It’s great to be back in Florida the weather is beautiful and we are enjoying the upgrades at my in call!

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I’ve had a great time celebrating my success with new friends and a few that I’ve been so excited to reconnect with.

I even got to wear some of the beautiful gifts that I’ve been giving I am so grateful thank you so much you guys know who you areimg 4613 Happy holiday season 2016

I’m still hitting the gym and eating my plan but I’m definitely getting to enjoy the goodies I’ve been baking…

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You know I’m going to eat at some point, and I will most likely fees you too especially if you’re at my place lol

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I plan on spending much of the holiday season and the Tampa Bay area if you’re visiting Orlando or Sarasota or even Naples shoot me an email it’s close enough to where I can definitely plan a visit if you are unable to visit me in Tampa.

My girlfriend and I have been experimenting with sensual domination we have lots of fun things to share with you

I also I’m getting a renewed interest in sex coaching lots of people asking about early ejaculation to challenges having an orgasm. I will do a separate blog post on each of the topics so stay tuned. I also offer coaching sessions over the phone or via Skype if you have some questions or areas of interest you would like more information on. 

I’m excited to connect with you and celebrate the season don’t forget to keep an eye on my summer selfie gallery I’ve been adding pictures for your enjoyment

Is talia time! 

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2016 pool time fun Orlando Florida

Author: taliaamour
May 20, 2016

2016 pool time fun Orlando Florida 

It’s finally feeling like summer here in Florida! 

Recently, I got to dress up in something I never have worn: kaki pants and a polo….and jump in the pool! 

Sometimes dress up is: dressing different than you normally would…how is this for different ?!

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Stepping out of our box can be fun and stimulating!  I love my hair and make up but I also have a Florida fun side too!

I had just eaten and finished getting ready…

He arrived right on time! ( I get flustered when people are early or over 15 min late)

We had a revealing conversation over a glass of wine to catch up and discover what the day had in store.

I usually have some kind of ‘food’ to share with what has been brought (I like to share ‘food’ weather it’s crackers, nuts, cheese and fruit, flat bread pizza or my barely seasoned meals and baked goods!)

This time I made muffins: banana, walnut dark chocolate chip and banana raspberry white chocolate…He wanted them for later….

We outback to the pool for a few hours….

We got to jump in and swim around together…..taking off the wet clothes slowly. The sun was warm and there as a slight breeze…after another glass of wine I felt called to change outfits and jump in again! We had such a blast!

After the pool we rinsed off and ate the muffins I made. speechless…that’s how good! Beyond amazing!  Sent one to go with him. 

Now we were filed up for taking turns on the massage table! 

I was sore from working out and we were both in need of some touch therapy

The coconut oil felt great on our skin after the sun…

You can only imagine the rest of the story I didn’t write…

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What journey will we share together???

Based in Tampa Florida

Visiting New York City June 26-July 1 2016

#itstaliatime


New photo gallery posted!

Author: taliaamour
April 18, 2016

New photo gallery posted!

On taliaamour.com visuals, Tampa March 2016:

 http://www.taliaamour.com/photo_album/226346/Tampa-march-2016/

Visiting New York City June 26-July 1 2016

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Taking some time to just be…

Author: taliaamour
March 27, 2014

The weather has been beautiful here in Florida this time of year. the past few months I have gotten to really enjoy some self time. I love to go to the beach and lately I have been hitting the gym instead of the Pilates machines.
This bikini season…watch out! It’s Talia time….find me in Florida the next few months
Tampa Bay Area
Sarasota
Orlando
Daytona
I am in the process of adding a new gallery to my taliaamour.com site and updating the pages so please enjoy!
I am always amazed at what taking some time for yourself can do
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New pics may 2013

Author: taliaamour
May 20, 2013

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New random pictures may 2013

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Hey Vegas!
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Ready for dinner? Almost, desert first!
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