Archive for December, 2017

sexual and porn addiction and compulsive Behavior patterns
By Talia Amour

As you know I offer sex coaching. There are a range of things that people come to a sex coach for. Sex coaching is a NON medical approach. It is an empowering process that offers sexual health information as well as coaching in a confidential, non judgmental atmosphere. We assess situations, help you clarify your goals and help you create action plans to achieve them. We do not diagnose and treat mental illness, we do not focus on the past or processing past emotions like a therapist would.

I have noticed a theme that many people have come to me with over the past few years and it seems even more prominent as of lately. I wanted to take a moment to share this with you and let you know that I have had a lot of experience around this topic and I am happy to be of service to anyone going through it or who has a partner going through it.

The topic is compulsive sexual behavior such as compulsive masturbation and over use of porn or acting out sexually. Some people refer to it as sex addiction or porn addiction. Addiction is the term therapy uses. Doctors are trained to diagnose and treat illness. ‘Addiction’ is the diagnosis they give you so they can send it to your insurance company and get paid for their services.

Coaches do not Medicalize the situation therefore we do not use or believe in the term ‘sex addiction’ or ‘porn addiction’. Our approach is that you are displaying compulsive behavior patterns or compulsive activities.

There are healthy ways to engage in sex, porn and masturbation. however if you are using this to avoid situations, avoid feelings or if it is causing you problems or negatively affecting your life then it needs to be addressed.

A lot of people ask me: how do you know if it’s a problem? Usually people that don’t have a problem, don’t wonder if they do. Only you can decide if it is a problem. There are some signs and questions to ask yourself to asses if your behavior is becoming an issue:

is your behavior negatively affecting your relationships with others? if so how is it negatively affecting your relationship with others? how you see others, feel about others, what you do to others? (specifically your partner or prospective partner)

Do you avoid interaction with people and/or no longer seek partner sexual activity and or connection I’m real life?

Are you having issues achieving orgasm without masturbation or without porn?

Do you have issues becoming aroused when you are not using porn?

are you choosing to masturbate instead of having sex with your partner?

Are you avoiding relationships because of your porn usage?

Do you experience guilt, shame or a feeling of disconnection or ‘let down’ after seeking out random/ anonymous sex or porn ?

are you experiencing erectile dysfunction with a partner but not when your watching porn

are you using as one night stands to avoid feelings or communication issues in your relationship?  

What negative consequences have you/do you experience due to your compulsive Behavior patterns?

If you have answered yes to many of these questions I’m happy to talk to you about coaching. We must first determine and clarify where you’re at; what’s not working for you. Then we can figure out what you would like to achieve and how to go about achieving it. Even if you are even questioning yourself, it may be helpful to talk to someone.
I have gone through trainings for life coaching sex coaching and I have experience with compulsive behaviors and Recovery. Sometimes within the coaching process issues arise from the past such as trauma abuse that have not been addressed. Coaching is not about processing Deep Emotions from past traumas, so there are times when I refer those specific issues out to a therapist. You can still continue the coaching process however deep-seated emotional traumas need to be processed by a therapist so that you can become present and focused on moving forward. Coaching acknowledges the past yet our goal is to create action plans to help you move forward and achieving your goals.

Many of the men I have worked with find success through coaching. All you need is the awareness, willingness and desire to achieve your goals. You are not broken, you do not have a disease! You are actually in a place of transformation and growth.

We all deserve to have a pleasurable, joy filled, loving, healthy sexual experience in this life.It is an honor to partner with you on this journey towards sexual health and fulfillment! 
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Happy Holidays 2017

Author: taliaamour
December 9, 2017

Happy holidays 2017Happy holidays to everyone I hope you’re staying warm and enjoying time with your family and friends. I will be in Fort Lauderdale 15 December through the 18th send me an email

if you want to spend some time together. The rest of the time you can find me in the Tampa Bay area ( Tampa St. Petersburg Clearwater ) as well as Orlando in Sarasota , through January. when it’s cold everywhere else, I try to stay where it’s warm. January is a very nice time to be in Florida. 

I have the pleasure of going to the meet and greet this past week in Tampa. I haven’t been to one in probably six or eight years. it was an intimate environment and everybody seemed to be having a great time socializing and getting to know each other better. I had the pleasure of seeing some friends I hadn’t seen in a while. I especially enjoy connecting with the other ladies in the industry. it’s not often that we can get together. 

As you know it can be a little isolating as a provider, there’s always the stigma around what we do. I don’t believe that we should have shame or judgment about about it. It seems we’re a little ahead of our times here in the US. I do show my face because I am so passionately connected to what I do and why I do it. I truly believe in this and know that I will always be involved and sexuality in someway shape or form, especially since I do the sex coaching. I imagine as I get older I may not be thought of for entertainment like I am now, I will always treasure this time these experiences and you that support me. As of now, as long as I’m still getting requests for entertainment and companionship I will absolutely be there for you ! I know that my real life experiences will make me one of the best sex coaches out there! with my training and education combined with real life experience I have a lot to offer.

As many of you may have noticed I don’t drink alcohol. I still enjoyed the party immensely. I have enjoyed the results of not drinking this past year. I’ve never been more consistent with my training, my health has benefited not just physically but mentally emotionally and spiritually as well. A few years ago I went through a period a little over two years where I was not drinking. Then for about three years maybe four I did decide to start socially drinking again. however January 2017 I made a decision to go back to the way of life that I know works best for me. which is no drugs or alcohol of any kind. 

I know that I am more conscious and aware and more present in my personal life and in my time with you. I want to be able to offer 110% best effort to you so I will continue to do what’s best for me, so I can be of service to you. If you bring something to drink or have a few drinks while we’re out I am totally comfortable with your decision to do so I just choose not to partake. I thank you for your understanding and support and my choosing this way of life. I’ve been on both sides of the fence and I am happiest and healthiest where I’m at.

As we move through this holiday season my wish is for you is 

joy happiness peace love and most of all divine orgasmic pleasure.

 If I can be of service to you in anyway shape or form please reach out to me. I have a high level of faith that everything happens in its own time according to a plan greater than our own and that every energetic exchange that occurs between us is for the greater good of all parties involved, whether they are present or not….we take this divine energy with us into the rest of our lives. 

I wish pleasure in for fulfillment to each and everyone of you and your family. I really look forward to continuing this journey of pleasure and passion with you. 

happy holidays much love…’s Tallia time!!

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Orgasmic energy multiple orgasms

Author: taliaamour
December 2, 2017

I’m often asked about men having multiple orgasms. For a man or woman for that matter to experience multiple orgasms you need to expand your ideas and believes and concepts of orgasm and orgasmic energy. Tantra teaches us principles and practices to explore this. Here is a brief rundown…

Orgasmic energy is the life force energy that flies through us and makes is alive.When we seek sexual we are also seeking the spiritual. The sexual orgasmic experience is the deepest most powerful way we connect with a force greater than us. Men’s ejecutate is the physical manifestation of this divine energy flowing through them. This is why dowist teach the with holding of the ejeculation. It takes energy to physically create the ejecutate and once it is released there is a refractory period. 

Orgasm starts before the ejeculation. You can feel it coming, you get to a ‘tipping point’ or ‘point of no return’ when the ejeculation is about to occur. That moment is when you are going from a local or genital only arousal to a full body arousal. The brain starts releasing all of the feel good chemical, you feel tingly, floaty, blissful.

The practice is to with hold the ejeculation and continue to build and circulate orgasmic energy through your body.

 When you are able to do this your orgasm gets deeper, more powerful…beyond words! It’s an altered state of consciousness. 

The feeling of connection is intense, it can even be a healing experience.

This journey is not for the faint of heart. You have to be ready to consider that there is more to sexuality than what you previously thought or have known. 

It takes time. You will find out more about yourself than before, you will grow, even transform. 

For more information contact me today. I offer sessions over the phone the Internet and in person.

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